Lets face it. Real men don't dance. People tune in to popular dance shows not only to gawk at half-naked women but to mock their seemingly coordination-challenged partners. Dance lessons seem to be wasted on macho, dorky men, squirming complicated dance moves like their life depended on it.
The few who are coordinated, the professional ones - are almost as pitiful. It's a shame that we still live in a world where straight men dancing in tights are sometimes misunderstood. They say real men can't bend like that or learn to dance that. Either that or we get the 'He must be gay' excuse.
But there's hope. When 'Saturday Night Fever' came, John Travolta made dancing a manly thing. Not only that, it was sexy! He's no dance instructor nor does he moonwalk like Michael Jackson, but he made the average Joe look like a king on the dance floor. If you want to learn to dance like a man, here are some pointers for your own DIY dance lessons:
1. Steer clear of ballroom-type costumes, including slicked back hair. Only professional dancers can get away with that while they're in 'Dancesport' competition. Dress a bit better than usual, and mix it with some attitude. Learn to dance with some respectable clothes.
2. Choose some cool rhythmic music to practice with. If you don't have any idea where to begin, R&B and Reggae can help you find your moves. They're full of steady, rocking beats that require only simple head and body movements. Just bob your head occasionally and you're good to go. Next, find a good groove to move your hips to. Tip: Watch how Elvis worked his magic with his hips. Women never forgot him for that.
3. Channel your inner James Dean. (Yes, even James Dean had to dance sometime.) Practice your death stare and mysterious smile until you can melt people into a puddle. Slow dancing was practically invented for this dance move.
4. When in doubt, keep it simple. While your hips are moving to the beat, you can use your hands to snap your fingers or clap a little to the music. (Just don't overdo it or you might end up annoying the person you're dancing with.)
Dancing isn't scary if you got some real man confidence. Get your cue from the beat and let your body do the rest. If you're having fun, dancing makes it all worthwhile. Women just love man who knows his way around the dancefloor. Try it for yourself! - 29874
The few who are coordinated, the professional ones - are almost as pitiful. It's a shame that we still live in a world where straight men dancing in tights are sometimes misunderstood. They say real men can't bend like that or learn to dance that. Either that or we get the 'He must be gay' excuse.
But there's hope. When 'Saturday Night Fever' came, John Travolta made dancing a manly thing. Not only that, it was sexy! He's no dance instructor nor does he moonwalk like Michael Jackson, but he made the average Joe look like a king on the dance floor. If you want to learn to dance like a man, here are some pointers for your own DIY dance lessons:
1. Steer clear of ballroom-type costumes, including slicked back hair. Only professional dancers can get away with that while they're in 'Dancesport' competition. Dress a bit better than usual, and mix it with some attitude. Learn to dance with some respectable clothes.
2. Choose some cool rhythmic music to practice with. If you don't have any idea where to begin, R&B and Reggae can help you find your moves. They're full of steady, rocking beats that require only simple head and body movements. Just bob your head occasionally and you're good to go. Next, find a good groove to move your hips to. Tip: Watch how Elvis worked his magic with his hips. Women never forgot him for that.
3. Channel your inner James Dean. (Yes, even James Dean had to dance sometime.) Practice your death stare and mysterious smile until you can melt people into a puddle. Slow dancing was practically invented for this dance move.
4. When in doubt, keep it simple. While your hips are moving to the beat, you can use your hands to snap your fingers or clap a little to the music. (Just don't overdo it or you might end up annoying the person you're dancing with.)
Dancing isn't scary if you got some real man confidence. Get your cue from the beat and let your body do the rest. If you're having fun, dancing makes it all worthwhile. Women just love man who knows his way around the dancefloor. Try it for yourself! - 29874
About the Author:
Hal Robbern is a writer and a dance fanatic since the age of two. Learn Quick and Easy Dance Lessons that can help you find your groove. Visit the link for more info.
